Im so upset with Ken . He can never be happy for me or let me be happy about something if he isnt also. Here is the story. For years now I have been wanting to go back to school. I really want to get into nursing but you have to apply to get in a year ahead of time and I had already missed the date. So I figured I would still go and just take a few classes to get used to the whole Idea of being in school again and having two little kids. Well Ken has been also wanting to go to school for a long time but he always waits till the last minute to do everything. So I told him I was going to fill out financial aid forms just to see if I would get anything. He was fine with all this. Well it turns out that I did. They pay for all my classes and books! Then he starts in how he was going to go and we both cant because we would never have time together and our classes would conflict. Well just to tell you he has been telling me since Ben was born three years ago he was going to apply at Perdue Calumet University in Indiana. So what did I do then, I was excited so I went to the school to sign up for classes and I found three internet classes i could take so he could still go even though he probally wouldnt have his stuff together and I really did want to take an actuall class at the school. But this way we are both happy and he can go. So everything is great today I can go get my books financial aid pays for and Im so happy school starts August 20th and Ken calls me all day from work telling me hes so upset because he might not get to go this semester because he hasnt talked to anyone about his classes and school for him starts in two weeks. He just called to see if they got his transcripts and they didnt yet so the lady told him he might have to start next semester.So now he is all unhappy and really bring me down. He can never be happy for me he told me he was jealous that I got all my stuff together already and was able to get my books and he couldnt go. He is always in competition. I hate it. He is just mad because I did everything and for once I didnt hound him to get something done and now he might not be able to go. It is his fault and I told him this. That was one thing I couldnt do for him and he waited to long. Im not even happy anymore. He doesnt ever like me to do something with out him being able to do something also. I can not stand it anymore he can never be happy for me he always brings me down. AHAHAHAHAH  I'm so upset at him!!!!!!!!!

Life isn't always about competitions with one another we should be happy for each other. Why is he like this?

 

 

I hope u don't stay mad for so long...well, i kinda understand how u feel but i can also understand ur hubby. i guess u guys just need a hug! c'mon just kiss and make up...I so wanted to study too! But with the kids and the moving, it doesn't look good! I might just find a job once we move...good for you u have everything done and I'm sure all your hubby needs is your support and encouragement...

Congrats for going back to school! Just try to understand ur hubby as much as u can. Show him ur support. Hope u feel better now, blogging is one great outlet. TC!

Vick, Ken should be happy atleast one of you guys can get to go. Besides when you graduate it is not just for you but for the entire family. Next semester is not that far from now anyway so he should be able to get things together by then and also go to school. Competition regardless is not good. Hope you guys will sort this out (which I know you both will). You may have to give him time but soon I am pretty sure he will he supportive of you. Take care, I am going back to sleep. :) Francis doesn't wake up till noon.